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[quote=Anonymous]It's true that people are bad at listening, and most people are just projecting their stuff onto you without actually trying to see you. But that is all stuff you can't control. Focus on what you can control, which is communicating clearly. If you have a friend you trust, ask them to give you some feedback about things you may be doing without realizing it that are sending the wrong signals. You might also consider taking a communications class. Some people are just natural communicators and others aren't, but it's a skill that can be learned. You don't need to go through your life feeling alienated and misunderstood, but you do need to take some active steps to change your situation. Also, if you find you are having this problem over and over again with the same person, consider that they may just be a self-involved jerk and try to remove them from your life![/quote]
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