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[quote=Anonymous]DH has trampled on our marriage for years. I know it seems so clear to everyone that I should leave. I am paralyzed and petrified. I have talked to 2 lawyers. I have talked to our financial advisor (future looks doable but grim). I just can’t pull the damn trigger. What helped you feel brave? Capable? What made you feel prepared? Staying in our house is the most affordable option I have by far (low mortgage plus a basement tenant) and still it will be such a hard stretch. I have no desire for another partner. There is nothing I’m looking forward to. Whether I stay or go, all I see is misery and hardship. What helped you beat the inertia? What made you optimistic about your future as a divorcee? What gave your confidence? [/quote]
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