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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This isn’t an emotional affair, it’s an affair with intermittent sex. Having this relationship is so so unfair to your spouse - it’s energy that you should have put into your marriage. Your marriage can improve when you go no contact with your AP and do a lot of work with on yourself, figuring out why you did this and thought it was ok and learning to set and enforce boundaries.[/quote] In my experience, the figuring out why you did it can be futile. You can assign blame to trauma, foo issues, boredom, etc.; ultimately, you effed around and found out, as the kids on TikTok say. The affair didn’t make you happy. You aren’t the same entitled, hopeful romantic you once were. Work on what is real and in front of you: your marriage and family. [/quote]
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