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[quote=Anonymous]My DH isn't into video games, but my teenage sons are.  Here's what I do for them and maybe you can see if your DH would go for the plan:

I limit them to 1 hour per day.  I have a timer I set when they begin and when it goes off, that's it no games.  Before they can play, however, they must have all their homework and chores done.

For DH, I would compromise on the work angle before playing video games.  He may need to relieve work stress as soon as he gets home.  As long as he is willing to limit the time to a reasonable amount that he has time to spend each day with you and the kids, I think both of you would be happy.

Seems like from your post that there is also an issue about house work responsibilities distribution.  My husband and I came up with a chart system for us and the children so we all know what we are responsible for and work is shared among all members of the family.  Even toddlers should have chores (ie.  helping clear the dishes from the table, picking up their toys, sorting laundry into color piles, etc.).  The goal for children is not perfection, but to let them learn that they have a responsibility to the family to contribute and so they can have pride in what they are contributing.  Positive reinforcement (a rewards system) is the best way to keep all members on track vs. harping on when things gets screwed up.

Hope this helps.[/quote]

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