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[quote=Anonymous][quote] Pp do you think it’s bpd bc she is so codependent and anxious or bc she doesn’t acknowledge the impact on you? My mom i think does not want to be a burden but her anxiety is so next level all the time she ends up in that scenario[/quote Lots of reasons but it includes deeply unstable self. When I was growing up it was always a fear coming home. Would she be ina rage? A fugue state? She had had psychiatric problems her whole life. She still has personality shifts but as she has gotten older it’s mostly the anxiety /codependent/guilt version. She loses her sense of reality when others are not there to constantly reassure her and groin her. It’s very difficult. She doesn’t want to be a burden at some level yet she has burdened everyone her whole life with being responsible for her emotional stability. Her own mother was a horrible person so it may stem from that. [/quote]
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