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[quote=Anonymous]We have 2 SN kids, and I am 99% sure their diagnosis come from DH's family side. I work full time, and I sign up/take them to weekly therapies/activities/classes almost all by myself. He skips parent teacher conference even he is off at home that day. DH is not happy with their behaviors, and somehow it becomes my fault and kids' fault. He does not understand why we have to pay for all beforecare/aftercare /summer camp, and why can't they be at home. He work remitely, and I work hybrid. He will not take care of them when they are home while it is his work hours. And, it is beneficial for them to be social with other kids. He has not taken them to hike, bike, swim , kick soccer etc, and it is all me doing all these while he sits at home relaxing.

If I want to blame, I want to blame his DNA for their diagnosis and suffering. We did the genetic testing, and both kids have the same abnormal DNA result as his. I don't even blame him for not helping out, and he blames me all the time for kids behavior. I am glad that I earn decent salary, so I can sign up many things and buy  many things without his approval. I try my best to learn some great parenting skills, but it is easier said than to be done. I lost my patience and temper sometimes, and DH hates it when I nag how busy and tiring I am. It is just easy and simple for him to say that I can choose not to sign up/take them to anything and just stay home.

Sorry for the vent post. [/quote]

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