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[quote=Anonymous]This is why it's so insane that some parents are afraid to get a diagnosis because they think it's too stigmatizing. If you knew your brother had a mental health issue, it would be easier to digest the situation.

I have a sibling with mental health issues who does hold down a job. She has personality issues going on and depression that manifests more as externalizing rather than internalizing. My parents had plenty of money to get her therapy, but didn't because she is their precious princess. She still is. No matter how many times her behavior causes problems in work and interpersonally, princess can do no wrong and must be catered to. She made some poor financial decisions and they bail her out.

My mother is livid I refuse to enable. When sister comes to me with the latest drama I tell her it is really something to sort through with a professional. My parents would rather her be this dysfunctional mess than actually get professional help.

I support myself, have a good marriage and get along at work and I am the villain because I will not join in this nonsense. [/quote]

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