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[quote=Anonymous]At first I thought there were other compatibility factors but now I'm starting to think I do enjoy connecting over a glass or two of wine once and awhile, and also feeling like I don't want to be in a relationship with someone maintaining sobriety. Like if they have to work at staying sober, vs. someone who just doesn't drink. I also don't quite know how to navigate questions like this.

Are they I used to drink a lot when I was 18, it almost ruined my life, I haven't drank in 20 years vs. are they I've been sober a few years here and there but when life gets hard I still want to drink and constantly fight the urge.

Yet I don't want to have an inquisition... how do you navigate questions like this?

Or for example unsure about having kids vs. doesn't want to have kids. What does unsure mean...

Are these pre-dating questions that you would be upfront and just ask?

Would you meet first & then ask?

Would you just pass?

TIA for helping me think this through and find my parameters 🙂[/quote]

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