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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Feeling left out or excluded from social circles can be a difficult and uncomfortable experience, especially when it's happening in your own neighborhood. In your case, it sounds like you're struggling with feelings of rejection and anxiety because you don't feel as connected to the new family in your community.

It's okay to have different levels of connection with different people. You don't have to be friends with everyone in your neighborhood, and it's okay if some relationships are closer than others. It's also important to recognize that neighborhood dynamics can change over time, and new people and relationships can enter and exit your life.

Instead of focusing on the negative feelings of exclusion, try to shift your perspective and focus on the positive aspects of your current relationships with your original neighbor friends. Remind yourself of the good times you've shared with them and the things you enjoy about their company. You can also make an effort to strengthen these relationships by planning outings or activities that you all enjoy.

If you're feeling particularly down about the situation, it can help to talk to someone about your feelings. Consider reaching out to a trusted friend, family member, or even a therapist or counselor. They can provide you with support, guidance, and strategies to manage your emotions.

Ultimately, it's important to remember that you have control over your own happiness and well-being. Pursue activities that bring you joy, even if they don't involve your neighbors. Focus on your own interests and hobbies, and don't be afraid to seek out new experiences and friendships outside of your immediate community. By doing so, you may find that you're able to form new and meaningful connections that bring you fulfillment and happiness.

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OP here, thank you for this kind and thoughtful response. I've said many of the same things to my kids as they've struggled with friendships here and there and I agree with all the things you said. It was comforting to read your advice and a good reminder that I have the control to shift my own focus.  [/quote]

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