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[quote=Anonymous]One of our kids has a good friend at school and we have become closer to the family this year. We don’t really hang out with them socially outside of the kids, but do get together regularly with the kids. A few months ago we were talking about spring break plans and decided to go away together to a destination we were both interested in checking out. They were the ones to suggest that we go together on the trip, not us. I knew that another family from our school was also going, and they have a child the same age as our friends’ other child. We sort of know this other family but not well. But our friends said they were really excited about the trip and so excited we were all doing something together.

We get to the destination last week and found out that the third family brought their nanny with them, and apparently had discussed sharing the nanny with our friends to watch all 4 of their kids together. This was never mentioned to us, and basically the 4 adults ended up going off and doing their own thing most of the time - both daytime and nighttime activities. The families invited our kids to hang out a few of the days (supervised by the nanny) which was nice, but we barely saw the adults the whole trip.

I found this to be completely off-putting, bazaar and pretty rude. There was zero acknowledgment of anything on their part and now we are back home and our friends are acting completely normal like nothing happened but we have no desire to really engage with them. Our kids do a lot of activities together and I am so put off by this whole experience and kind of don’t even want our kids to hang out any more than they have to. Is that unreasonable? DH thinks I am taking it too personally.[/quote]

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