Reply to is it kind of rude to NOT say no presents at a bday?

Forum Index » General Parenting Discussion

Reply to "is it kind of rude to NOT say no presents at a bday?"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous]DS goes to a small private school where most/all families are doing fine financially and the kids likely get plenty of toys and gifts from parents and extended family on their bdays.  In his kindergarten class roughly half to 2/3 the kids have said no presents on their bday invites and the other portion didn't say that.

I always thought I'd be a no gifts parent, the last thing I want in my house is more toys that aren't even necessarily things he wants or need, but he's really into the idea of getting presents from his friends.  He's helped pick out what to get the kids that have had gifts and has pondered what friends will pick for him.  I haven't yet said either way whether he'll have gifts at his bday party, for the other kids I've explained that some parents feel their kids already have so much stuff that they're just excited to have the friends come for the party.

Is it viewed negatively now if you don't say no gifts?  I was surprised by the first couple families that didn't, but that could just be a me-bias because I couldn't imagine wanting a bunch more junk and hadn't yet experienced a kid that was thinking about getting presents from friends at their party.[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics