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[quote=Anonymous]absolute lack of comunication is the worse thing for us. can't talk about anything because he gets so defensive to the point of becoming aggressive. everything is my fault. I seek his opinions on things and consider them, but I cannot express mine unless I agree with him because it would be a major insult to him. I tried to be simpathetic, but after years I am tired of walking on eggshells. I am a normally smart person (at least I was) and miss the intellectual exchanges I had with my friends (moved away from them). frankly, I am missing all kinds of himan interactions.  I asked to go to counseling but his flatly refused, said that I was the one with issues. now we get up, get kids ready, go to work, come back, dinner, kids in bed, and he goes to the sofa watching his crap on TV. every single night, until the wee hours. no, books, no concerts, no friends, no interests in anything other than CSI and stuff like that. he is obviously depressed, but at this point I need to try to save myself, if I still in time. I am trying to find the way out, not easy with young kids. he obviously does not want to break up, I am too convenient. I have been alone in my life, but never thought that I could feel such an atrocious loneliness  and desperation while living with somebody[/quote]

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