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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He doesn’t really have a plan for his or our life. I’ve been with him for 10 years and I guess I kept waiting for him to find direction for himself and us as a family and it hasn’t exactly come to fruition. I feel feel more lost and directionless as ever as since I’m married to him, our goals should be congruent and I’m moving in the same direction.

[b]I’m also 36 so it’s not like it’s easy for me to start over. [/b]

I’m feeling very depressed and aimless. [/quote]  I was 50 when I started over.  I know it doesen't seem like it, but you still have a lot of prime years left.  I do wonder how my life would have been different if I hadn't wasted all those years staying in a marriage that i knew I could never really be happy in.  But we didn't fight or argue, I didn't hate him and he was a great father. At the time it just felt easier to stay and coast along and stay content.  I really regret that.   Now he's remarried and I'm single. I'm OK with being single but I also wonder if I'll ever find love again, this late in life. [/quote]

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