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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You are earning your way into heaven. Do you think you deserve a free pass?[/quote]

The is OP and actually I think would rather go to hell.

A PP asked why she is living with us. She had an accident and ended up at the hospital and it was clear she could no longer live on her own. The first month she was sweet as pie. Thank you and you’re the best and very cooperative. Actually less than a month. Two weeks. Then she got meaner and meaner.

I’m sorry she is not happy but I don’t feel she has the right to make everyone around her miserable. I get that it’s no fun getting old and not being able to live independently. But I can’t take much more.  I just don’t know if I have the heart to drop her off at an assisted living against her will, but I may get to that point, maybe sooner rather than later if she continues in this way. It’s almost like she is asking to be shown the door.

I thought I was doing something nice by bringing her into our home and offering her a safe place to live. And I never expected it to be ALL sunshine and roses. But imagine waking up and the first words you hear are how unhappy someone is living with you and you are not doing enough for them, and the last words you hear  at night are, “I hate it here, I hate being here with you, why is someone else paid to do what you could do for me, you just don’t care enough or are lazy”

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