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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Grandmother here. Stay at a hotel. If you don’t want to or can’t pat for it ask your parents to.

We have the opposite issue. We have no problems when our grandkids stay in our small house. But we get a hotel when we visit our kids because we are annoying.  And they have big houses.

I suggest you talk about this with your parents. You may learn they would welcome this idea. [/quote]

Op already said they don’t want to pay for a hotel/airbnb, nor should they have to. Op’s parents /in-laws could take a lesson from you and either be more gracious hosts, be the ones to make the effort to visit, or accept not having a relationship with their grandchildren.[/quote]

Grandma here again. I think there is a good chance that the grandparent don’t want to hurt their kids feeling by asking them to stay at a hotel. Grandkids can be exhausting for many.  Older folks are not used to all the activity and chaos that comes with little kids (and their adult children). Am I correct in assuming the grandparents could swing the cost of hotel?  You will never find out unless you can have the conversation.

As far as anyone having to accept a no relationship as an option is immature and manipulative. Your kids don’t get to see grandparents because the parents can’t have a mature relationship with their parents.

Oh please. Cut the drama. [/quote]

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