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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We are an AA family and both my kids are in advanced programs. I agree with OP that there are very few students of color in these programs. However, personally I have never felt the need to reach out to other AA parents specifically. My kids are thriving in these programs and have never been made to feel unwelcome.

Is there a bias against black kids? Probably yes but I would refrain from making a generalized statement. It could be school specific or teacher specific.

We had been advised by our AA friends to find out AA affinity spaces or clubs at the schools for my kids. I have not done so and I am completely against it. I find it counterproductive, you want an inclusive environment and yet you want your kids to be part of a space where other kids are not able to participate. I would rather have my kids mixing with kids of all races and if it’s a white majority school, be it so. I want them to feel comfortable around people of all races, not just only when they are with kids of same color.

This is my personal take and so far I do not regret it a bit.[/quote]

OP here, and I really appreciate this input. Like you, my daughter is thriving in her program, and we couldn't be happier to see her excel in her new learning environment. Her teachers are attentive, communicative, responsive, and supportive -- and we are truly appreciative.

I'm not naive enough to say bias does not exist, but that has not been our experience. We were just hoping to meet with similar families. That said, even when broaching this topic with my parents, they both had very different opinions on this issue -- from me, and from each other.

My daughter knows no other experience than attending majority-white schools (preschool, elementary). I think this only prepares her for higher, secondary and post-secondary education and eventually the workplace -- yes, the real world. Her friends and teachers hail from different backgrounds, and she's been exposed to other cultures through both family and our travels. To be clear: This is never an issue SHE has identified or presented, just one of which I'm keenly aware. (My husband is not as concerned.)

I appreciate all the perspectives shared, and should this conversation fizzle out here, I'll certainly respect the experiences offered and the genuine, productive conversations had.

Thanks![/quote]

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