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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I plan to tell my DD that young sex is mostly what poor girls do, or girls without fathers, and she is too classy for that and needs to conduct herself in a way that she will not be embarrassed for herself later on or look like trash to potential husbands.  It's very low class.  That's what I will include in my speech. [/quote]

Wow.  This is an offensive way of looking at things.

I do think it’s worth pointing out to a daughter that the world treats a sexually active young girl much differently than a sexually active young boy.  Complete double standard that has not changed at all.  Sad reality is these kids don’t have the maturity to keep this to themselves if anything happens and all their peers will be talking about it (and maybe already are).  I can remember who these girls were in my day and my kids talk to me and they know who these kids are today and the girls are the ones who get gossiped about.   (And yes I point this out to my kids and say it’s wrong.)[/quote]

Also, she should be prepared for all his friends to know about it and to discuss it with their friends, some of whom will think your dd is a sl_t. Girls will treat her terribly and boys will say and do disgusting things to her. This happens when there is even a rumor, imagine how bad it will be when it's true.[/quote]

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