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[quote=Anonymous]No, I think you could gradually move her up to an 8pm bedtime, but as the other poster said, it MUST be slow and gradual because if you keep her up to 8pm tonight shge'll still wake up at her regular time! So do the 1 week 15 minutes later bedtime, 2nd week 15 minutes later, and so forth - do it for one week because moving too fast will backfire And I'd require she stay in her room until 6am, not 5am. She can play quietly or read in bed for 1 hour. Or she could do her homework (but can she do that alone without supervision? Maybe not at 8 yrs old and I'd DAMN well not be up at 5am helping with homework - that would not be good for me. And yes, the other family members matter, too She isn't a kid who needs 18 hours of sleep at night - she sleeps 7pm to 5am. So get her moved slowly, over 2 months, to 8:30pm to 6:30am. And make the rule she needs to stay in bed for 1 hour, until 6am. That way she practices a slow wakeup, not jumping out of bed and starting her day at 5am. And she needs to be quiet - reading or playing quietly, not renovating her room or thumping around with an active game, She can stay in bed and read, look at books, play with her stuffed animals.... And if in 2 months she still hasn't switched 1 hour later with this slow - 15 minutes - movement weekly, then perhaps you can just call her a Lark but I think you should give yourself 2 months to see if you can shift her. I agree, an 8 yr old should be able to stay up past 7pm! [/quote]
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