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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I agree with you, but Dad does NOT want a senior facility. "Every man wants to die in his own home," he has said, for years. And that works for him--but he doesn't think of the toll that takes on other family members, especially my mom...[/quote] That's his choice, but no need to enable it by catering to his every whim. Figure out your limits and stick to it. Give up keeping him happy. It's fleeting and they get more and more needy and self-centered. Do not make it easy for him to stay at home and stew. I am willing to bet money if he meet his wishes now within 6 months you will be on here complaining that he is never satisfied and it is driving you insane. Your boundaries aren't going to make him happy. They are to keep you sane.[/quote]
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