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[quote=Anonymous]OP hopefully posters will continue to be kind, but there is usually at least one person who obsesses over how elderly parents take precedence over everything. I agree with PP it is a husband problem, though yes the MIL is a problem. He needs to set boundaries and defend you. Therapy helps with that if he won't do it on his own. I knew my MIL was trouble before we married so I made DH hash out boundaries with me before I would agree to marry him. She busts up marriages at record pace with her neediness so it was a must. It still was stressful and we needed therapy along the way, but we got major boundaries in place. Good luck to you. I get it. I feel for you. you have a right to feel resentful. He should never have let her be so horrible to you.[/quote]
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