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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Or he is good at prioritizing and what you think is important maybe really isn’t that important.  Or he has his own list of stuff.  How many of these things does he ask you to do?

But let’s stick with the typical blame ADHD, DCUM response.[/quote]

My DH's own list of stuff is working out and working.

Missed deadline for tax assessment appeal- he said he would do it
Didnt make surgical  f/u appt for the vet visit that he attended and then never called to make it 
Did not repair screens this winter so we are either hot or need to turn on AC once its warm 
Took 2 years  to flush the instant hot water heater after the year 1 of install (needs to be done yearly)
Was 3 months late registering his car. Said he did it when it was due but never got stickers and then realized it 3 months after the fact.

In my world, my DH doesnt need to ask me to do anything because I do almost everything not directly house-repair related. He does do toilets, trash, and recycling, and cleans the garage.

I do all appointments for kids and animals, all handyman scheduling, all FSA/HSA medical receipts tracking and submission, summer camps, spring break camps, sports sign-ups, meal planning, grocery shopping, clothes shopping, deep cleaning, purging, daily house pickup, all family scheduling, all birthday party gifts, school paperwork, vacuuming, laundry for myself, kids, towels, sheets, etc. I have a written out list of breakfast lunch and dinner each day. Still have to remind him to start making dinner at 4-430 because I am working and he is not.

He didn't take the trash out Monday and I noticed when I came home from dropping my kid off so I did it, he didn't have to ask because I saw something not done and did it. He took out the recycling this morning but didn't empty the recycling bin in the kitchen- still did it without being asked.

Love him but it is frustrating. [/quote]

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