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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We have a written list.

I email it every Friday and Monday.

I cross off the stuff I do in red and his in blue.

It sits on the island.

It's like a vision board.

Eventually he feels bad he has not crossed anything off.

We rarely talk about it. But I do, about 4x a year say, I need these done, then he takes i seriously because it's not a constant nag. [/quote]

This is a good idea! What is the list composed of like general household management things things or basic chores too like cleaning the bathrooms, vacuuming? Both? I feel like this is a great way to show who's doing what. How are time sensitive things handled by the list? --Thanks for this, I like this idea![/quote]

My list looks like this

Summer camp registration Week 1-3 X program
Summer camp registration week 5 - no ideas, need help finding camp
Vacation - schedule fishing trip
Schedule dr appt for Larlo, knee pain
Request immunization from dr for camps 
Car needs oil change
Van need air in tires
Fix light fixture boys room
Birthday invitations need to be sent
Easter menu
Grill gas replacement
Contact geico about accident - request check
Submit therapy to care 1st for February 
Clean off deck for Spring

Don’t do this for grocery/cooking/cleaning/laundry

I cook, he cleans, I do my laundry, he does his and kids, I do grocery shopping… those are more like standing assignments [/quote]

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