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[quote=Anonymous][quote] He will be off to college and away in 4 months. I’m going to go against everyone and say stop the location sharing and tracking, unless all of you agree to this. I think it’s creepy to track college aged young adults, like some parents do.

[b]My kids are little younger but teens. [/b]So far, they aren’t out all night. I plan on treating them the same way my parents treated me. Common respect for the people you like with. I need to know an approximate time they will be home, and to let me know if they are staying at a friends. Also let me know if they are taking a road trip. I would do the same if I wasn’t coming home for any reason or going away for the weekend.

Keep communicating, like you are doing. It’s good you are open about drugs and alcohol. Many will try it. Personally, I wouldn’t be okay with keeping mj in the house.[/quote]

The bolded makes your advice useless.  Having “find my iPhone” on your kid’s phone that you pay for when your kid is driving the car around at night that you also pay for is not only not creepy but is in fact responsible from a safety perspective. Knowing when your kid arrives somewhere safely or that they are headed home when they aren’t picking up the phone is peace of mind.

My teen with a new drivers’ license assured us they could drive themselves from a dmv suburb to a friend’s house in DC one night.  Our kid put the address in maps and was off.  Forty-five minutes later teen called, very nervous, because did not recognize where they were after following the nav.  Turns out there was a street in PG County with the same name as the street in DC kid was trying to find.  Because we had “find my” on, we could figure out where kid was and track them to ensure for them and us that they got on the right route.[/quote]

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