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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I was where you are (not ectopics but Ttc  for 6 years unsuccessfully) and I now have 3 children, with my last being a surprise at 40.  It’s so hard to see everyone around you doing the only thing you want to be doing.

I will say, though, that my one big regret was not living a little more during the wait.  We bought a house suited for children, not us, we didn’t travel like we could (should!) have, I didn’t spend random saturdays having boozy brunches and spa days.  I worked obsessively to take my mind off of my ttc “failures” and spent the rest of my time exercising obsessively and freaking out about our finances (we made 300k combined. With no kids. In 2012. 😫).  In hindsight, I wish I would have enjoyed this period of my life a little more because 3 kids is nonstop and while they are wonderful and amazing little people, there’s certainly no downtime.

I hope it works out for you.  I used Ccrm and they are the very best.  Please care for yourself as you go through this journey, whatever that looks like for you!!

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