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[quote=Anonymous]My son (M16) has been dating “Liz” (F17) for 2 months. They hang out a lot, like teenagers do. She comes over to our house probably 3-4 days a week and they watch movies. Sometimes they go out. We have put normal restrictions - she needs to leave at 9:30 on weekdays and 11 on weekends.  If they go out, curfew is the same, but we have made exceptions to midnight if they have actual plans (like glo zone bowling).  We met her mom a few weeks ago when she came by to pick up my son so they could go on a shopping trip.
Her parents divorced when she was young, and dad lives 1+ hour away. She rarely visits him, and only lives with mom, stepdad and step siblings.
Her dad showed up at our house last night around 7:30. Apparently she stopped sharing her location with him a few days ago so he felt the need to track her down.  (Yet oddly, he found her so he must still be tracking her). He had her go outside and talk with him for about 10 minutes. It was very odd.
She was extremely upset and embarrassed.
After he left and she calmed down, I let her know that there was nothing to be embarrassed about.
The more I thought about it, what a controlling jerk. If he has issues with his DD, that needs to be handled at “home”, not a friend’s house. I can see driving here if it was a true emergency, or after curfew - but this was neither.
I’m not going to insert myself into this family’s drama - just curious what other people think. [/quote]

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