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[quote=Anonymous]17:11 here. No. Do not tell them or anyone you are doing IVF. They'll hear that and back-burner you completely. They'll make all sorts of assumptions about you, if you try to negotiate salary they will be all judgy, just don't do this. It's none of their business. The logistics of clinic to job seem unrealistic to me, but if you were set on doing this, here's what I'd do. Take the job if you get it. Start it up as normal and then when the first sign of IVF stuff that's going to take you out of the office starts, go into your boss, shut the door and say, "I know this is bad timing, but I've just discovered I have a somewhat minor medical issue that's going to require me to take some time off on these days." You're going to have to guess at the embryo transfer date - sometimes it's 3 days after retrieval, sometimes 5, and maybe you'll luck out and this will happen on a weekend (or retrieval will.)[/quote]
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