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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It depends on the kid.  Walk away, or put them in their room till they calm down, time out nanny style and apologize.[/quote]

As a preschool teacher, this is basically my advice but it sounds like you need to do some basic teaching about emotions and give him some self soothing strategies first. As to if it is normal…if you mean is it something most kids do, no, it is not. If by normal you are asking if it’s a sign of something more serious (like a potential diagnosis), not necessarily. I’ve worked with literally hundreds of children over my career and only a handful exhibited this kind of behavior. I work in a public elementary that goes to fifth grade so I’ve been able to see many of the kids grow past my program. Some went on to be diagnosed with other things but most did not. For most kids, the behavior can be extinguished by caregivers acting calmly and consistently restating rules and consequences. “We use our words when we are mad/sad. We do not hit. Take a break in your cool down spot until you are calm.” I highly recommend some time watching Daniel Tiger together. And spend some time when he isn’t angry talking about how anger feels in your body, how he can recognize it and begin to self sooth before he erupts. [/quote]

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