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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It sounds like both his mom and you are immature OP. [/quote] I hate myself for this! What can I do to change my feelings?[/quote] I know the answer to this! I was sort of like you. Once I got really hurt and upset about something, and I realized that I had spent too much of my energies "being there" for DH and was just expecting him to reciprocate. He thought that since we saw each other every day, it made no sense to spend quality time together. But I've always believed that relationships are important and worth investing in, so I made dates non-negotiable. I also went to therapy myself and that made me feel better about the fact that I have emotional needs and it's reasonable to expect DH to meet a few of them. And the next time he wants a sounding board for his issues with his mom, suggest he see a therapist. [/quote]
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