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[quote=Anonymous]It's not my job to be close to my kids SO. I invited them to holiday dinners or other things if they are so inclined but I am not trying to be buddy buddy with them. If they are engaged and/or married, yes I would want a closer relationship but now, my DC could break up with them at any time and I do not want to have a feeling about them either way. I shouldn't feel it as a loss to me or my family if they do break up. I have seen far too many women do that, fully envelope the SO into the family, even their own family, and then the break up is that much more traumatic and the DC doesn't feel they can come to the mother for impartial advice because she's too invested.[/quote]
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