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[quote=Anonymous]I would figure out with your husband what boundaries you want. You can either invite them all and make it clear you cannot be a mediator or you can invite them to separate events. (Your daughter will be fine-really. It's great she is oblivious to the tension now, but if she is an emotionally in tune kid she will pick it up eventually and it will stress her out). I have a relative I don't like for very valid reasons. I do not bring anyone into that. I do decline invites if I think she will be there because I have too much going on in my life for the constant digs and manipulation and she will seek me out. When life is less stressful I attend and just avoid her and smile when she finds me and insults me and then make an excuse to move away. Some relatives have reached out on their own and we see them without her. I don't badmouth her, but I am happier not seeing her.[/quote]
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