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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What are your memories of him before age 13? That's pretty established relationship at that age, right? Was he reliable then? What were your mom's reasons for the estrangement/separation?[/quote] Op here. My mom is mentally ill and when she kidnapped me and my siblings and hid us in Canada, she was defying court orders. My mom immediately married another man and changed our identities and forced us to pretend that our stepdad was our actual biological dad. Initially she said our real dad was evil and abusive, but then she just erased him and we never talked about him ever. For a long time I was confused and I did think my dad was evil. It wasn’t until I got therapy and my therapist asked me to explain what “evil” meant that I started to question things. For a long time I accepted the reality that my mom presented.[/quote]
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