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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Memory ward is like a prison. Don’t put your mom there unless it’s becoming impossible to keep her at home [/quote]

Thank you for that , my thoughts exactly, and my father's thoughts as well.  I think my sister is thinking of my Dad, and wanting things to be easier for him since he's in such great health, mind, and spirit currently (which I can understand) but I cannot see my father doing that to my Mom while they are maintaining well in the house they have lived in for 50 years.  Ya know? [/quote]

My mom refused memory care for dad because she had a very antiquated idea of what it was like. She became so burned out she became abusive toward him and her own cognitive, mental and physical health declined. We finally got him into Memory care when she was hospitalized and he adjusted better than anyone could have expected and seemed to age backwards for a while. He has since passed, but I can honestly say he was happier and safer there. Visit Memory Cares and keep an open mind. Two of my friends had similar experiences with their parents. [/quote]

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