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[quote=Anonymous]Early 50s. I've been working hard my whole life. I have a C-level position at a small company where I've been for many years and I make a good living. I'm a strong performer, and the company has done well, even through the pandemic. Despite that, I feel like my weeks are full of chaos and crisis. Managing people and conflict is just exhausting. I don't know whether my job has become more stressful or if I'm losing my ability to manage my stress but for the past year or so, I've felt miserably unhappy in my job. I originally attributed that to menopause and mental health issues so sought therapy. I find it helpful overall but it hasn't really reduced my work angst. I've started looking for a new job but am nervous about moving from the devil I know to a new environment that might be even more stressful. I sometimes think how nice it would be to take on an easier job - one without management responsibility. Financially we could swing a drop in my pay, but then I worry I might regret it and/or just continue to be stressed and just make less money. This also feels like giving up to me. But I'm just so tired of feeling like there's an elephant standing on my chest. My youngest started college this year, so I should be ready/able to take on more. But I'm not. I really just want to retire which I can't afford to fully do. Has anyone intentionally moved to a lower level job in search of peace/happiness? Did it work out well? Sorry for the long post. And, yes, I know this is a first world problem. [/quote]
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