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[quote=Anonymous][b]What do I need to truly consider or plan for if I initiate a divorce?[/b] OP, as someone who went through a divorce (initiated by my spouse) with three children, I implore you to truly consider the impact on three innocent children whose world will be forever rocked. Divorce takes their solid foundation (it does not sound like you are in an abusive or otherwise chaotic marriage) and pulls the floor out from under them. For their sakes, consider waiting until they are all off to college. I certainly wish I could have. The impact on children and their own sense of security and well-being is critical. No child wants to be going back and forth or having to be without a parent for holidays, etc. And no man you date/remarry will love your children like their father does.[/quote]
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