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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think it's important that you talk with your father and get aligned on what's happening with your mother.  Tell him what you're seeing and ask him what he sees.  It's important to listen to him and become partners in your mother's care.

This may take several conversations and don't force your assumptions or wishes on him.  The most important thing you can do is support him in caring for your mom.[/quote]

This is the ideal, of course. However, don't be surprised if he is deep in denial. My other parent and siblings were, one was doctor. Thank goodness the PCP listened because it wasn't even early stage-that's how bad the denial was.

My friend's dad was no longer safe to drive, but the mom was in denial. He got into a car accident and wrecked the car and claimed it was the other driver's fault. The insurance companies got involved and somehow his insurance had to pay all damages for both parties, yet the parents still claimed dad was not at fault. He even purchased a new fancy car for way above what it should cost because both parents were losing it and the salesman saw an opportunity. They got the police and DMV involved, but nothing happens quickly. He wrecked the new car within a week. [/quote]

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