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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think the answer to this is just to continue not to participate but I thought I’d ask.

My parents in-law and sister in law select a beach house every year and ask us to join them. We are never consulted about the house, sometimes consulted about the dates. We typically go for a day, maybe stay overnight in a nearby hotel. Every year they say “why don’t you stay with us!?” and do some level of drama about how they “got a house with rooms for us.” Every year I say I like to choose my own accommodations.

If they really wanted us to stay with them, they’d start asking our input into the house right? I think this is just their “polite” protestation but they don’t actually want to select a house with our preferences in mind?[/quote]

Okay, it’s weird that you go but stay in a hotel. What “preferences” need accommodation?   [/quote]

We need a room with enough space for four, and a separate bathroom that can be locked. So basically a regular sized hotel room. What we tend to be offered is for my husband and I to sleep in a very small bedroom and our children to share rooms with their cousins, which is a non-starter.  I also can’t have a situation where my youngest has to wander around at night to go to the bathroom because she’s still in the “gets lost in a new place” stage.[/quote]

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