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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So tonight I got dragged to a Super Bowl party by my boyfriend. It was at his friend’s home. I don’t know these people super well and they also had maybe 10 other people there I don’t know. There was a ton of food and I couldn’t bring myself to eat a thing. I felt so uncomfortable. Everyone was eating. The host asked me why I didn’t eat before we were getting ready to leave. Was I rude not to eat? In certain situations I have always been uncomfortable eating in front of people I don’t know very well (at someone’s home, not at a restaurant). I’m not sure why I feel this way…Maybe [b]I’m worried they will think, “Look at what she’s putting on her plate… look at what she’s eating and how she’s stuffing her face. Should she really be eating that?”[/b] It makes me self conscious and I know it’s irrational. The food was set up on a kitchen island and everyone was standing around it. [/quote]

It sounds to me like you have some sort of eating disorder because that’s not normal. Or maybe a touch narcissist. People really aren’t looking at what you’re doing in the host only noticed because she’s hosting and concerned that people have enough food. She shouldn’t have commented, but you might want to consider digging deeper into why feel feel this. 
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