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[quote=Anonymous]She turned 18 in mid-January and has decided since she’s a legal adult she can do as she pleases.

Ignoring our pretty liberal curfew (10pm on weekdays, no curfew on weekends as long as she tells us where she is) and not doing any chores.  We are not super strict because we really never had to be.  We told her while she lives in our home she needs to follow our rules.  So… she decided she’ll move out.  Plans on moving in with her friends family.  This friend is a great kid but her parents are basically non-existent.  She does as she pleases and it seems like DH wants the same freedom.

DH wants to ban this but I am kind of want this be a lesson.  She’ll be graduating in a few months and then off to college after that and we will have no say.  So I feel like we should give her this freedom so if there are any natural consequences we are here as back up vs. it happening when she’s at college.

But we aren’t willing to let her skip chores or show up whenever she pleases at our house.  What would you do?  I feel like since she’s still in HS we have some power.  But that ends soon I guess. [/quote]

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