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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You should break up with him because you are more interested in someone else, but you should not spend time minimizing and dismissing his feelings. Putting this in “situationship” territory only because he doesn’t have kids is ridiculous and telling him that he can’t really have feelings because he hasn’t had a long term relationship is very condescending. You’re just not feeling it, so find some kind but straightforward way to say that instead of acting like there’s something wrong with him.[/quote]

What I am leaving out is this: We have never been on an actual date, never watched a movie, never had coffee, never had a meal together. I don't see how he can think this is anything but casual. It has basically only been sex since we met. We met in public a few times for long walks before that but there was never anything else. I have seen him once or twice a month for 18 months. I don't know how anyone could feel this is anything but casual. Intermittent communication is a situationship. I don't think there is something wrong with him per se, but I do think it is accurate that this is casual and has been. [/quote]

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