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[quote=Anonymous]Middle aged woman with average to below average attractiveness here. It’s going to be fine. Yes, there are a lot of men who won’t think you’re hot enough to date. When I was dating that bummed me out a lot and made me feel unworthy. All my friends got more attention than I did. What I wish I’d internalized then is that confidence and being content and happy are SO much more important than looks. Focus on building a life you enjoy and keep up all the other stuff you’re doing for your health. Look for character above all when you’re dating: sense of humor, conscientiousness, intelligence, and build those things in yourself. I married an ugly duckling who has these in spades. He was overlooked for years in the dating market because he wasn’t a hot young man. [/quote]
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