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[quote=Anonymous]No rewards. You need to teach him that he needs to behave in an acceptable manner that respects you, whether or not there's "something in it for him". His brain needs to be wired to make the right choice without a carrot dangling in front of him. What are the consequences for these behaviors? If he takes the cheese what happens? In my house that would mean the cheese gets taken away, and the cheese is put on a higher shelf in the fridge. He kicks while you dress him? So what. Getting dressed isn't a choice. Keep your tone and language neutral. Larlo, we're getting dressed now. You can help or kick me but it's happening. He's testing limits and you need firmer ones. [/quote]
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