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[quote=Anonymous]First off, I will NEVER cheat on my DH.  I love him very much and will never hurt him like that.  I am also very royal to begin with.

I don’t know what is wrong with me, like I said, I love my husband very much, we’ve been together for over 15 years with 2 kids.  Of course, no marriage is perfect, we fight sometimes, but we always make up, no love is lost.

But a few months ago at a function at DD’s school, I met this other dad, he is not even my typical type, not particularly handsome or athletic looking.  I don’t know how to describe it, when I saw him for the first time, and his eyes met mine, I had this strange feeling that he meant something for me.  We had a brief conversation, I really liked his demeanor, he just made me feel very comfortable (again, I don’t know how to describe it).  I felt that he liked me, not sexually or anything like that.  We were both almost shy with each other, I almost couldn’t look into his eyes, and he avoided eye contact several times too.  My heart was racing a little too. We talked again when the event was ending, very brief, nothing weird, but we were a bit like two shy teenagers.  This is not normal for me, I am not shy with other dads, not like that.

Nothing happened after that.  We saw each other at DD’s school again one time, again I was shy, and I sensed he was too, we were happy to see each other but we couldn’t talk too much.

Nothing happened after that either.  I know I will never seek him out or anything remotely like that.  I think of him sometimes, nothing in a sexual manner, but more like wondering what he thinks of me.  It’s so stupid.

I’ve been bothered by this because a few nights ago he was in my dream.  In that dream, we were next to each other, DH was talking with someone, his wife was also talking to someone.  We didn’t say anything to each other but felt like we were saying so much.  I looked away from him, and he quietly grabbed my hand and held it, I didn’t move at all and a sense of dread filled the room.  That’s when I woke up and I was happy it was just a dream.

This dream has been bothering me for days.  I feel so stupid, and a little bit unfaithful to DH.  I know I didn’t do anything, but I have been liking another man, a married man, a man I only spoke to 2 times.

I don’t know why I am sharing this here, I suppose I just want it off my chest.  And maybe wanting some validation that I am NOT cheating on DH, and maybe this is normal and I’ll be ok.  
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