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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Also DD can't have her cake and eat it too - parents of gay teens need to know they are gay to fully support them. If OP suspects that this is a girlfriend she needs to talk to her DD about sex and boundaries, and its more than an oopsie pregnancy.[/quote]

Just no.

Despite what OP thinks she has not fostered an environment where it is obvious to her DD that she is supportive no matter DD’s sexuality.  That is in on OP, not her daughter. That failure does not give OP the right to then pry into her daughters sexuality.  For goodness sake OP doesn’t even know that her friend is her girlfriend.

But I’ll go one step further. Unless OP is willing to approach her daughter and tell her point blank that she may have male but not female friends sleep over then OP has not accepted her daughters sexuality nor is OP certain about it. If OP is unwilling to do that, then this conversation isn’t really about her daughter sleeping with her girlfriend. It is about OP forcing her daughter to come out to OP on OPs terms. [/quote]

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