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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My mother dumped my sibling and I on our great grandma and dad when we were growing up.  Now that we are adults she suddenly wants a relationship with my daugher. [b]My daughter is a junior in college and is applying to Veterinarian Schools[/b]. My Mom has not been an active part in her life at all and was band from our house by my husband when our daughter was 10 because she was screaming and yelling and throwing things.
She is calling my daughter and telling her and me that she wants to see her before she dies. My husband says that ship has sailed and has no interest in the situation. She was a horrible mother and grandmother. What should i do about this if anything.
Her Grandfather has a good relationship with her but terrible with me. He was abusive to me growing up and i don't allow her alone with him ever at all. He invites her to drive down and visit but I am not allowed to see him...he has no interest in seeing me or talking to me.  Our DD goes to school half way across the country and is home very little. She really has no time for them. At Christmas she wanated to visit but her car was left at school so she did not, plus she doesn't like the way they treat me. I told her she should go if she wants. Just because they treat me bad doesn't mean she could not see them. My husband is invited to go but i am not allowed. He says this is stupid and he is not going. Should I do anything?[/quote]

Your daughter is an adult. There is nothing for you to do here. She is going to do whatever she is going to do but you don't need to concern yourself with it. [/quote]

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