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[quote=Anonymous]You do what you can handle without giving yourself a nervous breakdown. Your mom chose your brother for POA and executor while of sound mind. She will now be dealing the consequences of that choice. Good on you and SIL for getting her to stop driving. That is a must. Your other relatives are welcome to insert themselves and speak directly to your brother, but I found I had to set a boundary. I am not a messenger. Make it clear mom chose him and all concerns should be directed to him. I suspect your brother was always nutty and your mom went into denial? Not your problem. Yes, moving her to a rural area does not sound ideal, and you could consult with a lawyer, but not sure that you have much for a case. Do what you can, but remember not to set yourself on fire to take care of a woman who made these destructive choices while of sound mind. If you take care of things that are his job legally, he could make your life very stressful.[/quote]
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