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[quote=Anonymous]I was the girlfriend that graduated with massive amounts of student loan debt. My inlaws never offered to house us, but were also never judgmental or saw me as a gold digger. 20 years later and our finances are ours together and aside from intentionally saving for our kids' college funds, the debt just slowed us down financially, but never changed our relationship. I think the idea to live with you and pay the debt off quickly is an incredibly generous offer, assuming you have the space and relationship with her/them to allow it to be a positive experience. The first year or two of marriage is an adjustment, and living with your new parents and inlaws feels like a lot for a young couple.[/quote]
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