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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You didn't do anything wrong. We can't protect ourselves from every eventuality. We can only trust that we'll have the strength to deal with what comes.

If you'd married someone whom you already knew to be a cheater and an alcoholic, that would be one thing, but people can veer off of their life path at any point. You can only control you.[/quote]

People blame others that marry people that came from families of cheaters/alcoholics/divorce, even when all friends, circumstances and behavior and words all voice that taught them they never wanted to do that to their/spouse/kids.  It seems even more believable.

Here's the thing people will always look to blame someone, it helps them think it can never happen to them because they are just too smart.  But, that type of thinking really gets people in trouble later in life when they realize you never can truly know what someone is capable of and you certainly cannot control someone else.  Life circumstances which happen after marriage affect some people differently.[/quote]

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