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Reply to "Elderly in-laws refuse to sell house that needs $200k of work, are out of money, can’t get loan"
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[quote=Anonymous]OP, the reason there is no path to making the finances work is because the house is a tear-down. Your inlaws got into this situation over YEARS and YEARS. Any money spent to improve the house is throwing good money after bad. And the best answer their kids can give them is to tell them you are really sorry that there is not a financial option that will let them stay in the house. It is too bad there is a bunch of deferred maintenance and they can't afford to fix it, but there are all kinds of things I want and can't afford. You guys are not in a position to help, not really. (If helping is at the exclusion of college and retirement savings.) This is a huge problem and if you start throwing money at home repairs you might as well be lighting it on fire. Your inlaws have a path out. They just need to know that there is no money fairy coming to let them have everything the way they want.[/quote]
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