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[quote=Anonymous]OP is sounds like you are already judging them and you don't know them. You write..."I also noticed that a lot of these ladies don't seem to have any/many interests/hobbies and many don't work. When I ask them what they do in their free time they don't have much to say." Chill out OP! Nobody says "what are your hobbies?" or "what do you do in your free time?" Those are interview questions and they are too stiff. Loosen up and just enjoy a walk or coffee with someone. I have plenty of hobbies and I work and I would still find your questions annoying.

Lose the cheesy questions and just go with the flow. Enjoy the walk and enjoy the beautiful scenery. Let this happen more organically. Are your kids at the same school? Comment on how nice the renovations look or mention that the new principal seems like she truly cares about the kids or you are glad they just introduced recess in middle school again or whatever. Gently try to find some common ground without the canned questions.[/quote]

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