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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Looking for fairness is a formula for being unhappy. But I get it. Try to figure out why this bothers you. Because you didn't/don't get much from your parents? Is your husband upset about it and you're carrying his emotions? Are you overwhelmed right now and maybe need to ask for help for yourself? Something else? And think about it: its any unhealthy dynamic. Your in-laws have created an adult who can't/won't take care of themselves so that they can enjoy taking care of her. What's going to happen to her after your in-laws die? Will they expect your DH to maintain her? (Maybe something you too should discuss.) [/quote] Oh god idk. We’ve never talked about it. They’ll probably just leave her every last cent and think we should be appreciative so we don’t have to pay her way. [/quote]
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